Tuesday 7 March 2017

Let's help her to be more of “HER’’ - (Happy.Energetic.Relaxed)



We are celebrating Women’s day today & we see on social media people are talking about it in full enthusiasm and celebrating in full vigor and we hear a lot about women breaking stereotypes. Above all the most popular cliche of feminism which people really don’t stop talking about.
She is beautiful in her own way. She takes care of her family like its backbone. She plays all the roles perfectly whether it's being a mother, a sister, a friend,a wife, a colleague or a boss. She molds herself flawlessly in her new family, workplace, better to say, in every environment multitasking all her way. She tries her best to make world a better place for people around her. Trying to balance her career & home, expectations & implementations.

Her for Her !!


We all talk about gender equality but today I would like to divert your thoughts to something we all experience -  do all fellow women treat each other equally or support them in all their endeavors?
She is not craving for the status of a powerful goddess & or newly found definitions of her beauty rather She is just a human who  would want to be treated the same by another fellow being. In majority of homes , women living under same roof do not enjoy cordial relations or don’t cooperate with each other also at workplaces they do not get support from their female colleagues ,then how do we expect to be treated equally from other gender?

Today responsibilities of home and that of work make her life stressful but when women around her are there to judge her at each juncture , when women around her are not able to support and appreciate her , it hampers her health as this stress intensifies, alongside the irregular eating sleeping habits, work & family stress, disturbs her overall metabolic activities, and leads to health problems at early age.

She just needs some support without any criticism on everything she does. She needs inspiration from her family in the same way she inspires everyone at home, support from same gender at work. She needs peace of mind at home , Sharing her workload at home, appreciating her, all this will help her in this journey of balance between work and home.Applies equally to the house wives too as they contribute most of the responsibilities of men in the home.

If we expect equality then first we women must treat each other as equals. It should start at our own home. Woman to woman relations whether its, mother-daughter, mother in laws-daughter in laws, sister in laws, owner-maid, boss-employee anything that exist must respect each other, & see as an individual. This will help to maintain her mental peace & can reduce her stress and encourage her to lead a better life at home and at workplace.

A woman knows exactly the needs of other fellow woman's life and problems and sharing it will lessen the pain. If that happens then only we can say that we will achieve true equality.
Also we know woman of home take care of all her family be it preparation of healthy food , timely eating, but she should also look after herself in these regards as in fulfilling the requirements of her family, she suffers and ultimately her health suffers.

This woman's day, lets it be more about women to women. Do some small gestures to help every woman around us to ease out her struggle & stress so that she can become more happy, energetic & relaxed.

Happy women's day.






2 comments:

  1. I am what i am because i am a women...happy womens day....

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